jessandwarrenforever:
I don’t order or mold people, that’s just stupid. So yeah…otherwise, dead on.
no no no no. virgo is one of the feminine signs, so they affect people passively, not actively. you’re right that we don’t order or mold people - but our high standards and constant self-criticism set an unspoken example that pressures people indirectly if we are not careful. a lot of the intuitive signs kind of fall into a self-consciousness around us that is completely invisible to virgo themselves, who doesn’t think they’re doing anything wrong except beating themselves up. When Virgo feels a loss of control in a relationship, it’s not because someone isn’t listening to them anymore - it’s because Virgo feels like the person themselves is slipping away from them. It’s a much more subtle form of control-freak. It has nothing to do with power, just order.
IMPORTANT! Love/Sex facts go for your sun, mars and venus placement - check
THIS POST
for more info!
Gonna post these LOVE FACTS in like 15 minutes but first AN IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT HOW TO READ THEM
These “love facts” are PRIMARILY written for your venus and mars placements, but PARTIALLY may be applicable to your sun sign. If you read all three and they all fit - awesome. If you read them and only one or two make sense - cool, that placement is more significant in your personality and comes up in your relationships more often than the other(s). I highly doubt that you’ll read all three and not one of them will make sense to you.
Why can you read these facts for all three? A few reasons:
1. Some people’s mars/venus placements become more apparent as they get older, or as they get more experienced in love/sex
2. Your sun sign can bleed into how you are romantically/sexually, it’s just not the be-all/end-all
3. Since your sun sign is your “basic” personality, some people shift from that kind of behavior to that which is more like their mars/venus as they get deeper into a relationship or if they’re just going through that experience really internally or deeply. Weird to explain, but I know that’s definitely the case for me - my venus in leo only comes out of the woodworks when I’m actually really into someone. At first, I just act really virgoan.
4. “Different qualities manifest differently in different people who have had different experiences.” = unofficial motto of this blog xD
Final note - some schools of astrological thought believe that Mars placement is more important in a man’s romantic nature/sexuality, and Venus in a woman’s. I personally say FUCK that heteronormative gender-binaried shit - read both. It’s likely (though not necessary) that one of them will ring “truer” to you than the other. I’m not going to read societal norms of masculinity/femininity into that.
Thanks for reading this y’all!
ak39:
9-drop:
astreaux-logy:
loling at how much text there is on this one. I’m a virgo. we’re quite well-intentioned, promise.
Sounds like Nathan xD
that’s not me one bit. im very opinionated, but i’ve been told that i’m very introverted, very much of a pushover, and i’ve only had one confrontation with someone. so this is not me in the slightest.
i agree that virgo is by nature the /definition/ of a pushover. i should preface this by saying that this is what they’re like when they’re either 1. extremely emotionally comfortable with someone 2. at their breaking point. additionally, note that the title is “can be” - this is not any of the signs’ behavior 100% of the time. also see my disclaimer about “you aren’t just your sun sign” blah blah, different qualities manifest differently, i’m a virgo who simultaneously often lets people walk all over me but can get really intensely confrontational when i’ve finally reached the point where i can no longer justify how i’m being treated.
loling at how much text there is on this one. I’m a virgo. we’re quite well-intentioned, promise.
