Offensive! I just want to make informed decisions and understand where people are coming from. D:
my boyfriend is an aqua and they’re one of my favorite signs! (if i ~*~*~*was*~*~*~ gonna pick….i wouldn’t) please don’t be offended, i know you guys just want to make sure you’re doing the right thing and one of my favorite things about you is that you never write off someone else’s opinion without totally 100% having tried to understand who they are and where they’re coming from
These “love facts” are PRIMARILY written for your venus and mars placements, but PARTIALLY may be applicable to your sun sign. If you read all three and they all fit - awesome. If you read them and only one or two make sense - cool, that placement is more significant in your personality and comes up in your relationships more often than the other(s). I highly doubt that you’ll read all three and not one of them will make sense to you.
Why can you read these facts for all three? A few reasons:
1. Some people’s mars/venus placements become more apparent as they get older, or as they get more experienced in love/sex
2. Your sun sign can bleed into how you are romantically/sexually, it’s just not the be-all/end-all
3. Since your sun sign is your “basic” personality, some people shift from that kind of behavior to that which is more like their mars/venus as they get deeper into a relationship or if they’re just going through that experience really internally or deeply. Weird to explain, but I know that’s definitely the case for me - my venus in leo only comes out of the woodworks when I’m actually really into someone. At first, I just act really virgoan.
4. “Different qualities manifest differently in different people who have had different experiences.” = unofficial motto of this blog xD
Final note - some schools of astrological thought believe that Mars placement is more important in a man’s romantic nature/sexuality, and Venus in a woman’s. I personally say FUCK that heteronormative gender-binaried shit - read both. It’s likely (though not necessary) that one of them will ring “truer” to you than the other. I’m not going to read societal norms of masculinity/femininity into that.
Thanks for reading this y’all!
Aquarius likes to be blunt and direct; we’re brutally honest people. We don’t waste away with petty big words to make you feel good about something that shouldn’t. We tell you the truth how it is and how we see it. Yes people may think this as cold, but what I cannot see is how people can’t look past that particular barrier to realize that at least we’re not trying to lie to them whenever they ask us our opinion.
So if someone asks us what we think of their dress and we don’t like it we’re not going to say “Oh I like it it looks absolutely fantastic on you,” and then comment behind your back about how much it doesn’t suit you and that you shouldn’t be wearing it. Aquarius have morals; when we stab people, we don’t do it while their back is turned. We present it to you in your face.
A+ last paragraph. and yes i’d like to highlight “[aquas] tell you the truth how they see it,” which is (often but not always) different from how a lot of people might see it. but yeah, aquarians are definitely not sneaky or intentionally manipulative